How To Identify A Soul Mate: Four Identifiers

The soul should always stand ajar,
ready to welcome the ecstatic experience.
– Emily Dickenson


A soul mate is someone with whom you share a soul level connection.  Such a connection has a myriad of dynamics present, often including the feeling of love and the experience of recognition as it is a connection that precedes the present lifetime.

Contrary to popular myth, a soul mate is not necessarily your one true love who you will marry and then live with happily ever after.  When it comes to the dimensions of the soul there is never one outcome and one definitive potential.  The soul is infinite and lives in the realm of infinite possibilities.

Soul mates always serve as a catalyst for change and such a meeting is abundant with growth opportunities.  Therefore to be able to identify a soul mate and to be aware that growth and change are on offer can be very beneficial.

The following list is based on my personal experience and the knowledge gained professionally from providing readings for clients as a love psychic.  The list is not conclusive, but the soul mate identifiers listed are the most prominent and are present in all soul mate connections.

Four Soul Mate Identifiers

1.  Recognition –  Often there is the feeling of immediate connection and even love.  This defies logical explanation of course as you do not even know the person.  On some level you do recognize each other, though consciously you may not understand it.  Sometimes one partner feels the familiarity and closeness before the other has the same experience.  The partner who is slower to recognize the connection holds as significant the moment they awoke to it and remembers precisely when that moment occurred.

2.  Magnetism –  You feel drawn to each other, you want to be around each other and sometimes this happens via synchronicity as if the hand of fate introduced you and then works to guide things along.  Sometimes the magnetism can taper off for a period of time in order to allow for introspection and growth.  In times of separation, if one can be still and balanced, it is possible to feel the other no matter the time and distance involved.

3.  Intensity – All soul level connections carry the potential for expansive growth.  When growth opportunities are being ignored, usually due to an overwhelming focus on the other person, intensity builds up.  The build up of intensity can lead to a temporary separation and a decrease in magnetism.  Letting go, getting back in balance, establishing a connection with one’s Self and focusing on self growth reopens the flow of the connection.

4.  Sacrifice – What is to be sacrificed is something old and no longer of use.  Some examples of what we may be called upon to sacrifice are: a way of life, an old and outgrown narrative of who we are, a rigid view of love and what others should believe and how others should act, negative and limiting beliefs.  A soul mate brings these old ways to the surface, usually by triggering them for us and not by eloquently writing them out in a kind note that they attached to a bouquet of roses. 🙂

Soul mate connections have the ability to turn us inside out.  They exalt us to where we believe our greatest joys are possible while they also can expose our deepest fears.  The rewards are high and one never need navigate the path alone.  Fortunately we are in an age where guidance by a skilled soul mate reader is a phone call away.

Smiles and love,


Your Love Psychic

I invite you to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section.


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…And Then I Became A Love Psychic

I remember when I was five years old I had such a strange feeling being in my body.  I remember wondering to myself what am I?  On whatever conscious level I had at five, I knew I was not my body and felt separated from it.  Thus began the knowing that what can’t be seen is far more fascinating and telling than what has taken form.  For now I know, everything begins in the energetic realm.

My first career was as a Registered Nurse.  Working with people who were often in extremely vulnerable states ignited expanding levels of compassion in me and also intuition.  It is a profound experience to be able to interact with others who have no pretense, their facade stripped away and they gift you with the essence of who they really are.  To then meet such purity with kindness and reverence is an opportunity I will always treasure.

Looking back, I am not sure why, but I really wanted to go to graduate school.  So I bought a book that listed all the graduate schools in the United States and when I read about Denver University and their International Development program a little internal bell sounded.  So I applied and got accepted and did obtain a Master of Arts in International Development and Human Rights with a regional focus in the Middle East.  I have not worked in the field of my MA, but I did write a thesis on the influence of the unconscious in international relationships and I did an internship for a human rights organization in the West Bank of Israel.

A couple of years after graduate school I moved to London and studied at an art and interior design academy.  Shortly before my move to London I began working as a love psychic.  It was my spiritual mentor who suggested the line of work and for that I will be forever grateful.  When I first started I did not know how it would go of course, but it turned out to be like putting a fish back into the water after it was waiting, suspended in the net.  I was quick to obtain clients and  some of those clients are with me to this day.  I have been doing readings since the summer of 2003.  I moved back to the states from London in 2007.

It is my belief that we are all multi-gifted and talented and some of us may not end up on what is perceived to be a traditional path, but we are all here to serve each other and enjoy in the doing and being our unique Self.

Smiles and love,


Your Love Psychic

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